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Codependency Test

Do you lose yourself in taking care of others?

Published by the Healthio+ editorial team · Based on Adapted from the Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale.

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Answer how much each statement is true of you in relationships generally. Nothing you enter is saved or linked to you.

This is a screening tool, not a diagnosis. Results are for self-reflection only. Only a licensed professional can diagnose a condition.

01I have trouble saying no to people.
02I feel responsible for other people's feelings.
03I put others' needs ahead of my own, even at my own expense.
04My self-worth depends on being needed or approved of.
05I struggle to identify what I actually feel or want.
06I try to control or "fix" the people I care about.
07I stay in relationships that aren't good for me.
08I feel anxious or guilty when I focus on myself.
09I minimize my own problems to focus on other people's.
10I fear being abandoned if I assert my needs.
11I keep the peace even when it costs me.
12I lose my sense of self in close relationships.

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About the Codependency Test

This test is a free, anonymous online screening you can complete in about three minutes. It has 12 questions and is adapted from Adapted from the Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale. Your answers are scored privately in your browser — nothing is saved or linked to you — and you get an instant result framed for self-reflection rather than as a diagnosis.

Who is this test for?

Anyone who has been noticing these feelings or patterns and wants a structured, private way to reflect on them. It's a starting point for people wondering whether what they're experiencing is worth paying attention to — not a way to label or diagnose yourself. It is not suitable for anyone in crisis or in need of urgent help — if that's you, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis line right away.

How to read your results

Low (score 1227)

You seem to balance caring for others with caring for yourself. Healthy give-and-take.

Moderate (score 2843)

You show some codependent patterns. Practicing boundaries and noticing your own needs — not just other people's — is a good place to start.

High (score 4460)

You show strong codependent patterns. Losing yourself in others is often learned early and can be unlearned. Therapy and boundary work can help you feel like a full person again, not just a caretaker.

Where this test comes from

This screening is adapted from Adapted from the Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale. We keep the original questions and validated scoring intact and add plain-language explanations of what each result means. You can read our full process, including how we handle sources and sensitive topics, in how we build our tests.

What to do with your result

Whatever your result, treat it as information, not a verdict. If it resonates, it can be a useful thing to bring to a doctor or mental-health professional — they can see the full picture a short questionnaire can't. Feelings and circumstances change, so retaking the test after a few weeks can also show whether things are shifting over time.

Frequently asked questions

Is the Codependency Test free?

Yes — completely free. No signup, no email, and no paywall. Healthio+ currently carries no advertising at all.

Is this test anonymous, and is my data saved?

It's fully anonymous. Your answers are scored entirely in your browser and are never sent to us or stored anywhere. We keep only an anonymous count of how many people take each test, plus which browser family was used and which site you arrived from — never who took it or how they answered.

Is this test a diagnosis?

No. This is a screening tool for self-reflection, not a medical or psychological diagnosis. No online test can diagnose you. If your result resonates, consider speaking with a qualified doctor or mental-health professional.

How long does this test take?

About three minutes. It has 12 questions and gives you an instant result the moment you finish.

What is this test based on?

Adapted from the Spann-Fischer Codependency Scale.