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Attachment Style Test

How do you bond, and what happens under stress?

Published by the Healthio+ editorial team · Based on Based on adult attachment research (ECR): two dimensions — anxiety and avoidance — that combine into four styles.

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Answer how true each statement is of you in close relationships, generally. Your style comes from two dimensions: attachment anxiety and avoidance. Nothing you enter is saved or linked to you.

This is a screening tool, not a diagnosis. Results are for self-reflection only. Only a licensed professional can diagnose a condition.

01I worry a lot about whether my partner really loves me.
02I need frequent reassurance that I'm cared about.
03I fear being abandoned or left.
04I get very upset when someone I'm close to is distant.
05I overthink small changes in how people treat me.
06My mood depends heavily on how my relationships are going.
07I prefer not to depend on others, or have them depend on me.
08I feel uncomfortable when people get too emotionally close.
09I keep my feelings to myself in relationships.
10I value my independence over closeness.
11I pull away when a relationship gets too intense.
12I find it hard to fully trust or lean on a partner.

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About the Attachment Style Test

This test is a free, anonymous online screening you can complete in about three minutes. It has 12 questions and is adapted from Based on adult attachment research (ECR): two dimensions — anxiety and avoidance — that combine into four styles. Your answers are scored privately in your browser — nothing is saved or linked to you — and you get an instant result framed for self-reflection rather than as a diagnosis.

Who is this test for?

Anyone curious about their attachment style and how it shapes the way they think, feel, and relate to others. It's for self-understanding — there are no right or wrong answers and no "good" or "bad" result. It is not suitable for anyone in crisis or in need of urgent help — if that's you, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis line right away.

What this test measures

Security on the anxiety axis

Comfortable that you're loved; you don't chase reassurance.

Attachment anxiety

Fear of abandonment; a need for reassurance and closeness.

Comfort with closeness

You can depend on others and let them depend on you.

Attachment avoidance

Discomfort with too much closeness; a pull toward independence.

Where this test comes from

This screening is adapted from Based on adult attachment research (ECR): two dimensions — anxiety and avoidance — that combine into four styles. We keep the original questions and validated scoring intact and add plain-language explanations of what each result means. You can read our full process, including how we handle sources and sensitive topics, in how we build our tests.

What to do with your result

Whatever your result, treat it as information, not a verdict. If it resonates, it can be a useful thing to bring to a doctor or mental-health professional — they can see the full picture a short questionnaire can't. Feelings and circumstances change, so retaking the test after a few weeks can also show whether things are shifting over time.

Frequently asked questions

Is the Attachment Style Test free?

Yes — completely free. No signup, no email, and no paywall. Healthio+ currently carries no advertising at all.

Is this test anonymous, and is my data saved?

It's fully anonymous. Your answers are scored entirely in your browser and are never sent to us or stored anywhere. We keep only an anonymous count of how many people take each test, plus which browser family was used and which site you arrived from — never who took it or how they answered.

Is this test a diagnosis?

No. This is a screening tool for self-reflection, not a medical or psychological diagnosis. No online test can diagnose you. If your result resonates, consider speaking with a qualified doctor or mental-health professional.

How long does this test take?

About three minutes. It has 12 questions and gives you an instant result the moment you finish.

What is this test based on?

Based on adult attachment research (ECR): two dimensions — anxiety and avoidance — that combine into four styles.